"Everyone has mood swings"
Bangla Choto Golpo
সবারই মেজাজ পরিবর্তন হয়
My girlfriend often tells me that she has a lot of mood swings. As a result, all his close friends left him and went away. Hold my hand tighter and say please don't ever leave me. Although I have heard this term mood swing many times, I did not know its exact meaning. Still, I consoled the girl, 'Don't worry, I will be with you for the rest of my life.'
In this way, our relationship was going on happily, we used to quarrel many times, but at the end of the day, we would laugh together again, talk to each other, and break each other's anger. After a few days, I saw that the girl was suddenly behaving rudely with me. The girl is overreacting even to my normal words. Getting angry at the words, not listening to anything. Somewhere, the girl seems to be upset about everything.
One day I asked something happened to you?
The girl said "nothing" and avoided my words.
After going on like this for several days, suddenly we started talking a lot. In the phone, both of them started highlighting the bad side of both. The mountain of complaints began to rise. And after a while the girl suddenly cut the call. Seeing that, my temper got hotter so I switched off the phone. After about three hours when I switched on the girl's call came immediately. He cried and asked for forgiveness. But I did not give him any response. I remained silent.
The girl said again, please don't be angry!
I thought maybe after that we would just talk and love might not exist anymore.
So I decided to get out of the relationship, then maybe both of us will be better. Before hanging up, I angrily told the girl that you will not call or message me again.
Still the girl used to call again and again like shameless and I used to ignore the girl at the same time because when we were together neither of us were good.
Today, when I reached the age of 20 years and looked around a little better, I saw that the surroundings were completely dark. Daytime sunlight may have illuminated this nature. But I see only darkness around me.
The reason for this is mood swings. Exactly 8 months and 23 days ago a girl told me that she has mood swings, and now I am suffering from this disease myself.
A few days ago, the friend with whom I was laughing and talking was told to leave in anger, so he also left.
At home, sometimes I scream at the little words of my parents. I couldn't focus on anything, I was so bored. So I didn't want to go out of the house anymore, I used to spend time sitting alone in the dark room of the house. Now I want the girl very much but I myself blocked the way for her to come. When I think about that girl who repeatedly told me about mood swings and I gave her false comfort, I also left her alone without understanding her situation. The girl might have thought that if we stay on the call for a while then we might start hating each other so she cut the call and wanted to avoid Tropic. I got angry like a fool and lost the girl. Now I think if I had understood about mood swings earlier, I would have never left the girl. I would tolerate I was waiting But I didn't do that. Maybe if you do.
I learned about mood swings much later.
Everyone said that most of the girls suffer from mood swings due to various reasons including hormonal imbalance, menstrual cycle. Suddenly their behavior changed. Overreacts.
But I realize everyone has mood swings. Hmmm maybe we should call him a psycho. But that man is not really a psycho. A person full of emotion, love and compassion.
Those people are very helpless.
They can't be someone's best friend.
May not be a good student,
Can't be a good child of parents,
Can't be a good lover lover.
So the saying goes,
"Be patient with angry boys and girls
You will see that they will love you very much."
"O Dear"

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